Pay attention to what they don't say. Pay attention to long absences and self isolation. Let your babies be clingy EVEN at family gatherings. If they don't feel right, don't force them to "go and play." If they are uneasy with certain people, look into it. It may not be molestation; it may be negative talk, intimidation or other kinds of abuse. Watch your kids and don't ignore them. And plz, plz don't assume that just because family is all that's there that they can't be victimized.
